EP 150: Why playing it safe is costing you the life you truly want + how to leave your comfort zone
I heard a quote the other day and it stuck with me: "Your relationship with uncertainty will define your entire life." Because here’s the truth: if you always need answers and the illusion of 'security' to make certain decisions that your gut is telling you to make, you will never make a move.
In today's episode, I will dive into why when you choose uncertainty over comfort, your entire life upgrades. I will break down why uncertainty is the price of power + how high-achieving women can finally step into their magnetic era in 2026.
So babe, grab your cacao or matcha and a journal, because you’re going to want to implement these tips into the new year!
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This is the work we do in depth inside of my brand new mastermind experience, THE MAGNETIC WOMAN.
Identity & Mindset Recalibration
— Not “thinking differently”, but being different, and leading yourself differently in everyday life situations. Triggers don’t disrupt you any longer. Life feels lighter, more fun, and deeply fulfilling.
Feminine Embodiment + Nervous System Safety
— Attraction without anxious attachment. Connection without neediness. Inner wholeness. You feel relaxed, regulated and deeply in your body as your daily baseline. No more rushing around, stressing, overthinking, worrying or chasing out of fear, from a place of pressure, lack of self-worth, or scarcity.
Somatic Healing Work
— That’s when old patterns dissolve, and your standards for yourself and others naturally rise. You carry yourself differently, as you no longer carry old emotions and beliefs that used to keep you stuck.
Aligned Wealth + Career Expansion
— Strategy + resource management to make your life and career effortless and successful. It’s time to master money, take quantum leaps in your career and have more freedom while thriving financially and feeling deeply aligned with the work you do. You get to love what you do and bank BANK, bby.
Love + Relationship Calibration
— Embody secure, healthy feminine energy in your relationship/ dating life to finally have that yummy, healthy, polarized love life you desire and deserve, that your ex told you only exists in movies, lol. Get chosen, claimed, cherished, romanced and worshipped – even beyond the honeymoon phase.
And if you felt your body expand just by reading this…
This first-ever round may just be meant for you, bby.
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In this episode, I discuss:
01:30 - Why choosing uncertainty over comfort upgrades your entire life
09:50 - A little life update sharing everything that’s been happening BTS
11:50 - The ‘sweet spot’ struggle so many ambitious woman are facing
14:50 - 2023 – The year I reclaimed my power and chose ME again
17:55 - 2024 – My soft CEO era where my spark slowly came back
19:15 - 2025 – The year of becoming all I ever wanted to be
21:25 - 2026 – The year to take things 10x - here's how
27:35 - Some of my favorite wins from 2025
30:05 - My personal highlights of 2025
Episodes to binge on in January:
Episode 111: The power of reclaiming your feminine energy in your daily life, career and romance for exponential results
Episode 112: Becoming a top 1% feminine leader and creating a balanced lifestyle with Corinne DeFilippis
Episode 120: LIFE RESET SERIES PT 3 - How to 'do it all', without burning out | my step-by-step process
Episode 126: BECOMING MAGNETIC AF - PART 3 - What it actually takes to become 'THAT GIRL' and manifest anything effortlessly
Episode 129: Optimizing your health by questioning everything you have been taught with Victoria Benitez
Episode 139: She healed, then scaled: Soft power & business growth w/ Mirjam Novy
Episode 141: The 5 things that will make or break your success, health & alignment in 2026
Episode 149: Wanna be a feminine AF baddie in 2026? This is how to become wealthy, relaxed and unstoppable
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