EP 164: How to be 'that girl' who always gets what she wants - fusing 'IT girl' x 'magnetic queen' energy
Have you ever noticed your phone is dry AF when you secretly want validation?
Like you text your friends/ the guy you like, post on social media, share on stories…only to hear crickets.
But the moment you’re unbothered and just out there living your best life…everyone suddenly appears and wants a piece of you.
Sounds familiar?
That’s because magnetism is not something you chase. It radiates when your life is full.
In this fun and empowering episode, we’re diving into what it really means to become the kind of woman who effortlessly attracts everything she desires — without chasing, forcing, obsessing, or burning herself out in the process.
We’re diving deep into how to fuse ‘IT girl’ energy with ‘magnetic queen’ energy, how to become her, why detachment is a product of overflow, why we need to let money flow like water, the practice of self-honoring decisions, the real truth about magnetism, and so much more!
So bby, pour yourself a coffee or tea, grab your journal, and settle in for an episode filled with reflections, truth bombs, mindset shifts & practical insights to help you embody your most magnetic, unstoppable self.
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Journal Prompts:
Where are you chasing instead of overflowing?
Where are you abandoning yourself for validation?
What would “that girl” actually no longer tolerate/ entertain?
What structures would support the woman you’re becoming?
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In this episode, I discuss:
01:20 - Intro to the episode – how to fuse ‘IT girl’ and ‘magnetic queen energy’
03:55 - A quick reality check (get honest with yourself here to see changes!)
11:00 - What ‘IT GIRL’ energy actually is and how you can embody it daily
14:55 - The step by step process on how to become HER this summer
31:20 - Detachment is a natural result of *this*
35:25 - Why we need to let money flow like water
41:10 - What making self-honoring decisions truly means
43:35 - Feminine energy without structure becomes chaos
45:10 - Why you will never see an IT GIRL accept breadcrumbs
50:20 - The real truth about magnetism they don't tell you
Similar Episode:
Episode 132: How to become unbothered by others and obsessed with yourself
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